Verbal eroticism (dirty talk) is a form of sexuality that is particularly stimulating for many people. This term comes from the porn productions of recent decades, in which ’dirty talk’ became part of the production.

Verbal eroticism is not about a sexual position or a specific form of sex, but merely a side effect of fucking or foreplay. It’s about throwing social norms and conventions overboard and using dirty words to heat up your sex partner even more and intensify the sexual mood.

Many people dream of verbal eroticism and of their sex partners letting themselves go so far during the act that they forget all normal behavior and express themselves in the dirtiest and most vulgar way possible. For most people, however, taking the plunge into verbal eroticism and simply letting themselves go is a major hurdle at first. It often takes practice and a little time to get used to it before most people are able to incorporate verbal eroticism into their own lovemaking.

Verbal eroticism must also fit the current situation. Only a few couples will have the idea of incorporating verbal eroticism into the act when having vanilla sex in the missionary position. In wild and uninhibited sex, but also in many role-playing games and BDSM, on the other hand, verbal eroticism is used very frequently.

The appeal of verbal eroticism lies above all in breaking conventions and in the idea that your partner is so hot and lustful during sex that they simply speak their wildest thoughts out loud. Accordingly, many people love verbal eroticism and would love to experience it in their own relationship. However, not everyone is able to express themselves in a vulgar way or simply forget the conventions that have often been trained over many years.